Okay, so introducing a spoon or fork probably won’t mean the end of spaghetti up the walls. But get started now and your baby will soon get the hang of using cutlery. Whether you decide to wean your baby with purees or go down the baby-led route, they’ll come a time when you’ll want to introduce cutlery. As you can imagine using adult-sized forks isn’t the best idea. But fear not, you can get toddler cutlery that your little one will love using.

Start with a spoon

Introducing a spoon to your little one as early as possible will help him understand that cutlery is a part of mealtimes. Do this by offering your baby a spoon to hold right from the start of weaning – usually six months.

Encouraging your baby to use cutlery is usually a three-stage process. First you introduce a spoon, then a spoon and fork, then finally a fork and knife. As your baby moves onto lumpier foods and has mastered independent (if somewhat messy) feeding – usually somewhere between 10-14 months – introduce a fork and spoon together.

Don’t stress about mess

First off, don’t worry about mess. There will be lots when your little one is learning to use cutlery. Remember, moving from fingers to forks is a gradual process. So, don’t worry too much if your toddler is still scooping up food with his hands as well as a spoon.

Get the right kit

Bright colours or even favorite characters can encourage your little one to use cutlery. Plastic, special-shaped cutlery that he can grip easily is a good idea. And make sure he’s comfy. Buy a child’s booster seat that keeps him strapped in as he’ll be fidgety if he’s uncomfortable or too low this can put them off trying to manage his cutlery.

Practice during playtime

Host a tea party and pretend to feed dolls and teddy bears. You could use dry pasta or rice to ‘feed’ his toys as it’s good for developing hand-eye coordination. You could also get lumps of Play-Doh and encourage your toddler to cut it up using plastic cutlery.

Accept a mix of fingers and forks

And if he prefers fingers, don’t worry. The important thing is he tries a variety of foods rather than have fantastic table manners so early on.

Get your toddler involved

Encourage your toddler to set the table with you so they become used to cutlery being part of meal times. Talk about what each item is used for – the knife is for cutting, spoon is for puddings, breakfast or soups – as even very young children will quickly pick up the concept of cutlery.

Lead by example

Slice up your child’s food into bite-size chunks and show him how to spear a piece on his fork. Make sure you sit down to eat with your baby so he can watch you eating with your knife and fork. Your baby will love copying what you do. Experiment with lots of textures and techniques. Mashed potato is great for practicing cutting and scooping.

Introducing a knife

As your little one grows into a toddler (around two years old) and starts eating meals that are more or less the same as yours, you can introduce a knife. They may not hold the knife and fork together or in the right hands, but let them work it out their own way – they’ll soon be using them properly. The general idea is that by the time they are starting at school, they should be able to use a fork all the times and a knife at least some of the time.